We Are the Compassionate Revolution

026 | Taikeya J on Empowerment, Poetry, & Finding Your Voice

This week, Molly sits down with poet, minister, and Abstract Voices founder Taikeya J to explore how poetry – and the stillness beneath it – can reconnect compassionate people to their truth, emotions, and deepest dreams.
 
Taikeya shares how poetry became her sanctuary, how a high school poem about slavery was deemed “too strong” to publish, and how anger, healing, ancestry, and creativity can intertwine in the work of reclaiming one’s voice.
 
What if the doorway back to your voice wasn’t through force… but through tenderness, creativity, and quiet?
 
Together, Molly and Taikeya explore:
why compassion often leads to self-silencing.
how anger can be a righteous, clarifying emotion that signals a boundary violation.
why poetry and creativity create a safe space for emotions that were once shamed.
how ancestral stories and trauma echo in our bodies and beliefs and benefit from having a place to be expressed and heard.
why many compassionate people stop dreaming – and what it takes to start again.
 
Today’s Guest:
Taikeya J is a poetic voice, non-profit leader, change-maker, family historian, minister and faith-rooted creative whose work bridges art, identity, and spiritual healing. She inspires audiences to rediscover wholeness, purpose, and divine rhythm. Taikeya holds a Bachelor of Arts in Hospitality Management and a master’s degree in ministry. She also founded Abstract Voices, a creative movement originally launched as a student poetry organization; it evolved into a dynamic community that bridges artistry, healing, and empowerment through written and spoken expression: https://abstractvoices.com/.
 
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For boundaries resources for compassionate people, find Molly at: www.boundaried.com.Step into a 30-day Guided Boundaries Journey with Molly at: www.boundaried.com/path.Pre-order Molly's new book, The Great All.

025 | Dr. Melanie Griffiths: The Truth About Migration, Borders, & Our Shared Humanity

This week, Molly is joined by Dr. Melanie Griffiths – an academic, lecturer, and migration scholar whose work reveals what most of us never learned: how borders function, why human movement is not something new, and what’s really shaping the stories we’re told about “the other.”
 
Together, Molly and Melanie pull back from the news cycle and ask some big, tender questions: What is migration, really? Who taught us to fear it? And what happens when compassionate people start questioning the stories we’ve inherited about borders, race, and scarcity?
 
Exploring the myths, fears, and power structures that create division, this chat offers clarity and hope.
 
(And, as mentioned in the show, to step into a 30-day Guided Boundaries Journey with Molly, visit www.boundaried.com/path.)
 
Molly and Melanie explore:
why migration is a normal part of life on this planet, and how borders are a recent human invention.
how myths of “crisis,” “invasion,” and “not enough to go around” get into our bodies and nervous systems.
links between colonialism, capitalism, race, and today’s migration policies.
how generational trauma, propaganda, and fear-based narratives keep us divided and disempowered.
the role of artists, writers, and creatives in imagining new ways of living together.
how boundaries can be an act of rebellion for compassionate people – helping us stop pouring our life force into abusive systems and relationships.
 
Today’s Guest:
Dr. Melanie Griffiths is an associate professor in Human Geography at the University of Birmingham, UK. She has been researching migration systems since 2007 and specializes in immigration politics and enforcement. She has written on the asylum system, irregular migration, immigration detention, deportation and other topics. Learn more at: https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/staff/profiles/gees/griffiths-melanie.
 
Book Suggestions: 
Hein de Haas. 2023. How Migration Really Works: A factful guide to the most divisive issue in politics.
Nancy Fraser. 2023. Cannibal Capitalism: How our system is devouring democracy, care and the planet – and what we can do about it.
David Graeber and David Wengrow. 2021. Dawn of Everything: A New History of Humanity.
Tricia Hersey (founder of the Nap Ministry). 2022. Rest is resistance: Free yourself from Grind Culture and Reclaim your Life.
 
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For boundaries resources for compassionate people, find Molly at www.boundaried.com.Step into a 30-day Guided Boundaries Journey with Molly at www.boundaried.com/path.Pre-order Molly's new book, The Great All.

024 | Molly Tucker, PhD: How to Speak Up (When You're Afraid to Say the Wrong Thing)

This week, Molly and clinical psychologist Dr. Molly Tucker – co-author of Saying the Wrong Thing – explore how compassionate people can speak up in emotionally charged moments. You’ll learn about psychological flexibility vs. rigidity, how to assess situational safety, what to try in the moment, and how to repair relationships when you’ve said (or not said) the “wrong” thing.
 
They also introduce a simple challenge: One Bold Thing per week through 2025 – small, values-aligned actions that build courage and change culture. Will you join us?
 
Build the skill (and nervous-system capacity) to speak up – kindly, safely, and consistently.
 
This packed episode covers:
tools for speaking up with courage (and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy, or ACT).
why being “afraid to say the wrong thing” is common.
the cost of chronic peace-keeping.
staying in hard talks without shutting down or exploding.
how to gauge situational safety, micro-advocacy at the dinner table, and advocating for a trans family member
ideas for repair after saying the “wrong” thing.
 
Today’s Guest:
Dr. Molly Tucker is the co-author of the newly released book Saying the Wrong Thing: How to Speak Up in Difficult, Controversial, or Emotionally Charged Conversations. (Order and receive a 25% discount with code SPEAKUP25: https://www.pesi.com/item/saying-wrong-thing-156754.) She has been interested in relationships and mental health since the fifth grade when she first was trained as a “Peer Mediator” to help fellow students resolve disputes. That’s when she knew she wanted to be a Clinical Psychologist. Dr. Tucker received her M.S. and Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from the University of North Texas. She then completed her predoctoral internship and postdoctoral fellowship at the VA Long Beach Healthcare System, with a specialty in Advanced Interprofessional Mental Health. Beyond formal training in multiple Empirically Supported Treatments (ESTs), she has also received extensive training in administration and interpretation of cognitive, personality, and vocational psychological assessments. If you're looking to find meaning and engage fully with life, she would be honored to walk alongside you in that journey.
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023 | Ingrid Clayton: Fawning, Trauma, & the Healing Path Home to Self

Dr. Ingrid Clayton – clinical psychologist, author, and complex trauma survivor – joins Molly to explore what it really means to heal from the fawn response (a trauma pattern that teaches compassionate people to abandon themselves to stay safe). Ingrid opens up about her new book, Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves and How to Find Our Way Back, offering insights into how the need to please can lead you away from your true self.
Together, Molly and Ingrid discuss why fawning is a nervous system adaptation, not a personality flaw, and how laughter, creativity, and embodied practices can restore a sense of self after relational trauma. They also examine spiritual bypassing, toxic positivity, and the cultural forces that keep compassionate people over-giving and disconnected from their truth.
If you’ve ever felt yourself disappearing into relationships, or you’re trying to find your way back home to yourself, this episode is for you!
 
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In this chat, Molly and Ingrid uncover:
the fawn response as a survival strategy, not pathology, and how it intertwines with attachment and early relational trauma.
why “people-pleasing” and “codependency” miss the systemic and trauma roots.
spiritual bypassing and toxic positivity as hidden self-abandonment.
nervous system healing through EMDR, IFS, and body-based awareness.
how true healing helps reclaim self, agency, and authenticity.
 
Today’s Guest:
Ingrid Clayton, PhD, is a psychologist and author who specializes in the intersection of spirituality, addiction, and trauma. Her latest book, Fawning, shines a light on an often-overlooked trauma response, fawning, and delves into what it is, why it happens, and how survivors can reclaim their voice and sense of self. Her memoir, Believing Me, chronicles her personal awakening to a traumatic past, while Recovering Spirituality explores how spiritual bypassing can hinder true healing in recovery. Learn more at: https://www.ingridclayton.com/, and connect with Ingrid on Instagram @ingridclaytonphd.
 
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022 | Neha Bhat: Healing Sexual Shame, Reclaiming Power, & Remembering the Sacred

In this powerful conversation, Molly sits down with Neha Bhat (ABT, ATR-P), a licensed arts-based sexual trauma psychotherapist, visual artist, entrepreneurial coach, and bestselling author of Unashamed: Notes from the Diary of a Sex Therapist. Neha is also the creator of India’s first Global Sexual Trauma Healer’s Collective.
 
Together, Molly and Neha explore how sexual trauma, shame, spirituality, and culture intertwine – in the East and the West – and what true healing looks like when we reconnect to our hearts, bodies, and creative life force. They also dive into taboo topics with tenderness and truth: the generational silence around sexuality, the impact of religious and cultural conditioning, the psycho-spiritual dimensions of trauma, and the sacred work of reclaiming the body as our own.
 
This episode is both a deep dive into embodied healing and a compassionate invitation to slow down, integrate, and honor your becoming.
 
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In this episode, Molly and Neha explore:
the intersection of spirituality, intuition, and psychology in healing work.
cultural shame around sex and its lasting impact on the body and soul.
community as medicine: why deep work in groups compliments one-on-one therapy.
how cultural polarization between East and West mirrors the inner split between head and heart.
healing not as a straight line but a circle – slowing down, tending the body, and reclaiming self-trust
 
Connect with Neha:
Neha Bhat is an Indian arts-based sexual trauma-focused psychotherapist, bestselling author, and expressive arts practitioner weaving together the clinical and the mystical between India and the US.
Instagram: @indiansextherapist
Facebook: @neha.n.bhat
Website: www.nehabhat.org
Book: Unashamed: Notes from the Diary of a Sex Therapist – available wherever books are sold.
 
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021 | Group Identity, Boundaries, & the Psychology Behind Blind Loyalty

When loyalty becomes unboundaried, we lose sight of love and begin justifying anti-relational behavior. Group identification shapes perception, loyalty, and morality – and this phenomenon is playing out on the world stage. Unboundaried over-identification with a group – political, religious, social, or otherwise – can pull us away from our values. When loyalty becomes the highest law, love gets sacrificed and great harm is often done.
 
In this thought-provoking episode, Molly explores a powerful human pattern: our instinct to pick a “team” and stay loyal to it, no matter what. This can be healthy and fun – or it can do damage.
 
But there’s hope: We can step back, remember our shared humanity, and choose love as the guiding boundary. And in modeling this for ourselves, we become a mirror that can help others break free.
 
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In this episode, discover:
the psychology behind why we feel loyal to “our team.”
how group identity can distort perception and morality.
why unboundaried allegiance causes humans to justify harmful behavior.
why arguing from a position of sides rarely works – and what helps instead.
 
Thanks for listening to We Are the Compassionate Revolution! If you love the show, please help support it (at no cost) so we can reach more compassionate souls like you: Follow or subscribe wherever you listen, rate it five stars, or write a happy review. See you next week and remember: Love is the way!

020 | You’re Allowed to Have Needs: A Self-Care Meditation for Compassionate People

So many compassionate people are incredible at caring for everyone else yet struggle to turn that same care inward.  
 
Today, Molly offers a 16-minute guided meditation that invites you to pause, reconnect with yourself, and remember that your needs matter, too.
 
Let this be your reminder that self-care is not selfish: It’s love in action.
 
Check out therapist and author Molly Davis Moon’s website: www.boundaried.com.
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Thank you to NaturesEye via Pixabay for the beautiful background music “Elumias.”
 
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This meditation will help you:
ground into the present moment and release the pressure to perform.
send love and attention to the parts of you that need it most.
envision a “future you” who honors their needs with ease and joy.
feel what it’s like to treat your needs as sacred.
 
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019 | Awakening, Estrangement, & the Golden Child: Conversation with Author Lauren Smallcomb

This week, Molly sits down with Lauren Smallcomb, author of the newly released book Golden Child: My Descent to Scapegoat and Rise to Freedom.
 
Tune in for today’s moving conversation, as Lauren shares her powerful and deeply personal journey with grief, wonder, and unraveling from fundamentalism to step into her authentic self. Her courageous story is one of resilience, clarity, and hope.
 
Whether you’ve navigated family estrangement, struggled to set healthy boundaries, or want to learn about the role of “the golden child” in family systems, this discussion provides valuable insights.
 
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In this episode, Molly and Lauren explore:
family estrangement and what it really means to choose yourself.
the roles given (golden child and scapegoat) in dysfunctional families and the impact they have on the recipient.
the heavy cost of challenging a dysfunctional family system.
how painful experiences can become portals to transformation.
 
Guest info:
Lauren Smallcomb (https://flourishtherapy.co/) is a certified Mind-Body Practitioner whose journey as a healer began at 20 when she became a registered nurse, dedicating a decade to caring for patients in the ER. She later expanded her expertise to become a birth doula and, eventually, a nutritional therapist. In 2020, after making the difficult decision to walk away from a dysfunctional family system, Lauren embarked on a transformative process of rebuilding her mind and body through brain retraining and trauma healing. This journey inspired her to become a certified Mind-Body Practitioner. Her newfound sense of empowerment prompted Lauren and her therapist husband to establish Flourish Therapy, with the intention of helping others heal and thrive after childhood trauma. Born and raised in upstate New York, they now make their home in Northern Thailand with their children, two dogs, and a cat. Follow Lauren on Instagram and Facebook @goldenchildbook and on Substack @laurensmallcomb.
 
Order your copy of Lauren's new book, Golden Child: https://flourishtherapy.kartra.com/page/goldenchild
 
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018 | Personal Growth through Adversity: Mindset Shifts that Empower

People don’t usually welcome adversity; it feels painful, lonely, and overwhelming. But what if some difficult seasons can become fertile ground for growth?
 
Molly explores how reframing hard times as a classroom can bring unexpected wisdom and healing. She also offers a song she wrote after just such a season, Song of the Seed.
 
If you’re in a difficult season right now: You’re not alone, you're not a failure, and there’s a way to move through it.
 
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In this episode, Molly shares:
a reframe for challenging times.
how difficulties can catalyze growth.
the unexpected transformation that can arise from seasons that feel like a dark night of the soul, a volcanic eruption, or a fallen seed forgotten in the dirt.
 
Thanks for listening to We Are the Compassionate Revolution! If you love the show, please help support it (at no cost) so we can reach more compassionate souls like you: Follow or subscribe wherever you listen, rate it five stars, or write a happy review. See you next week and remember: Love is the way!

017 | Recalibrate to Love: Choosing Hope Over Fear

Fear is real, but it doesn’t have to run you. In today’s destabilizing times, fear is marketed, and unfortunately, it’s easy to become accustomed to anxiety. But you matter. And your worth is not found in your performance, but in your being.
 
Through the wisdom of the rabbit – adaptable, resourceful, playful even on the edge of danger – Molly shares thoughts from her recent travels and explores how we can honor times of quiet burrowing, growth, and rest – without mistaking them for weakness.
 
Molly offers her original song, Sit You Rabbit Down, written in 2017 as a prayer of resilience in fearful times. And she reminds us that we can recalibrate to love, again and again, as an act of rebellion and empowerment.
 
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In this episode, Molly shares:
the contrast between the harmony of nature and the clamor of fear-driven news cycles.
how fear is being marketed and why we must resist it.
why love is a radical act of truth and power.
 
Thanks for listening to We Are the Compassionate Revolution! If you love the show, please help support it (at no cost) so we can reach more compassionate souls like you: Follow or subscribe wherever you listen, rate it five stars, or write a happy review. See you next week and remember: Love is the way!